Reading List: Pendulum: How Past Generations Shape Our Present and Predict Our Future

Pendulum: How Past Generations Shape Our Present and Predict Our Future

Politics, manners, humor, sexuality, wealth, even our definitions of success are periodically renegotiated based on the new values society chooses to use as a lens to judge what is acceptable. Are these new values randomly chosen or is there a pattern?

Pendulum chronicles the stuttering history of western society; that endless back-and-forth swing between one excess and another, always reminded of what we left behind.

There is a pattern and it is 40 years: 2003 was a fulcrum year, as was 1963, its opposite.

Pendulum explains where we have been as a society, how we got here, and where we are headed. If you would benefit from a peek into the future, you would do well to read this book. Roy H. Williams (Author), Michael R. Drew (Author)

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For Business Leaders: 5 Ways to Influence the Way Your People Communicate With You

You are the head of your organization.
Only you understand the gravity of the challenges you face. An effective leader is defined as a successful strategist with a loyal and intelligent following. However, success no longer depends on the old model of simply following a charismatic leader. Business relies on how effective this leader will be in shaping the culture of her enterprise.
A large part of that culture is made up of what people believe about their contribution to the bottom line. You: the one at the top needs to know what that is.

But how do you get that information?
Here are five ways to promote a culture of communication that encourages and protects honest feedback.
1. “Listen For” where you have been “Listening Against”
When your people talk to you are you listening for contribution, or are you listening for whether or not you agree? Get curious and interested in what’s being communicated. You will have plenty of time later to pass judgment on what you hear and observe. Until then, practice receiving the message as something new. What you get may surprise you.
Often the value is far beyond YOU getting information. YOUR LISTENING can actually provide more for the speaker than for you. Your people may even start to experience that “open door policy” you’ve been touting about while you get to learn something new about them!
2. Acknowledge and Appreciate:
Acknowledgment and appreciation are critical in relating to your direct reports and this can be done more effectively and authentically than patting someone on the back just for doing their job.
Try some humility.
Ask advice on a pertinent issue. Your people will love it and respond with loyalty and the experience of being part of something that matters. This kind of appreciation can become an effortless habit, and strengthens the bond between you and the people you depend on.
3. Cultivate Trust:
There are two kinds of people. There are those who trust people automatically and those who make people earn it. Which one are you? Let your people know which camp you stand in!
The next step would be for everyone in your inner circle to do the same, unearthing valuable information on how to relate to each other.
Cultivating trust make good business sense because when trust goes up, profits go up, and problems go down.
4. Model Partnership:
“A leader leads by example, whether he intends to or not.”-An apt quote attributed to Steve Jobs, John Quincy Adams and others.
In business as in life, there are problems. There are wins and losses, successes and defeats. How we recover and move through these challenges says everything about the kind of leader we are. Taking the high road does not mean letting it go, it means taking accountability and restoring partnerships where they are missing. No blaming or complaining.
Model this practice consistently and you’ll soon have committed partners eager to jump for you.
5. Attract Alignment to Your Decisions
As the head of your organization the buck stops with you. It makes sense that you will have to make some tough choices that are pivotal for employees, shareholders and customers. In most cases, the tougher the decision, the tougher it is to get alignment.
HOW you make the decision is equally as important as the decision itself. You can plant the seeds of buy-in when you identify what type of decision you are making. This goes a long way to achieving alignment and takes very little effort:
TYPE 1: Decisions requiring immediate executive action with no input
TYPE 2: Decisions that could benefit from the suggestions of others
TYPE 3: Decisions that could actually be up for a vote
Identifying these in advance and informing those who are affected will produce the alignment, emotional connection and allegiance to build a high performance organization.
By getting curious first, appreciating and acknowledging your people, cultivating trust, modelling positive partnerships, and attracting buy-in to your decisions, you will be astounded at how much information you will collect and the change in the relationship between you and your people.

Noomii publish link: http://www.noomii.com/blog/4419-for-business-leaders-5-ways-to-influence-the-way-your-people-communicate-with-you

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Reading List: Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap… and Others Don’t

Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap… and Others Don’t

The Challenge: Built to Last, the defining management study of the nineties, showed how great companies triumph over time and how long-term sustained performance can be engineered into the DNA of an enterprise from the very beginning. But what about the company that is not born with great DNA? How can good companies, mediocre companies, even bad companies achieve enduring greatness?

The Study: For years, this question preyed on the mind of Jim Collins. Are there companies that defy gravity and convert long-term mediocrity or worse into long-term superiority? And if so, what are the universal distinguishing characteristics that cause a company to go from good to great? Jim Collins (Author)

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Identifying the Restraints

A trim tab is a small surface attached to a larger surface, usually on boats or aircraft, to improve the efficiency of the larger surface or the craft.  “This reduces the work of the Helmsman”.
I can relate this to an organization as follows, the trim tab is accurate information and the Helmsman is the leader.  The more the leader knows about the “goings-on” of their organization the greater their efficacy in guiding it.
In bringing lasting change to an organization, so far, we have addressed uncovering the Leaders Vision, grounded it in commitment, and interviewed the organization (Discovery) to understand how the Culture works.  We have gathered the “intel”.

The information collected in Discovery, lets us know what the “organization” thinks, what the “unwritten rules are”, how it sees its leaders and what their unintended impact is (blind spots).  This information allows for the strategic map to accomplish the Leaders intention. There are always aspects to the workings of every organization, the culture, that present unforeseen roadblocks to progress and change.  To the degree you can

identify those restraints to progress, the smoother your transition to your next level of organizational excellence.  The better your data, the greater the positive impact on your dollars.  As you engage this journey into Behavioral Economics, the better your trim tab, the better the economics and the less wear and tear on your Helmsman.

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Reading List: The SPEED of Trust: The One Thing That Changes Everything


Trust, says Stephen M.R. Covey, is the very basis of the new global economy, and he shows how trust—and the speed at which it is established with clients, employees, and constituents—is the essential ingredient for any high–performance, successful organization.

With nearly 750,000 copies in print, this instant classic shows that establishing trust is “the one thing that changes everything” (Marcus Buckingham, coauthor of Now, Discover Your Strengths ) in both business and life.

For business leaders and public figures in any arena, The Speed of Trust offers an unprecedented and eminently practical look at exactly how trust functions in our every transaction and relationship—from the most personal to the broadest, most indirect interaction—and how to establish trust immediately so that you and your organization can forego the time–killing, bureaucratic check–and–balance processes so often deployed in lieu of actual trust. Stephen M.R. Covey (Author)

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Reading List: The Compound Effect

The Compound Effect

Product DetailsNo gimmicks. No Hyperbole. No Magic Bullet. The Compound Effect is based on the principle that decisions shape your destiny. Little, everyday decisions will either take you to the life you desire or to disaster by default. Darren Hardy, publisher of Success Magazine, presents The Compound Effect, a distillation of the fundamental principles that have guided the most phenomenal achievements in business, relationships, and beyond. This easy-to-use, step-by-step operating system allows you to multiply your success, chart your progress, and achieve any desire. If you’re serious about living an extraordinary life, use the power of The Compound Effect to create the success you want.
Darren Hardy (author)

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Culture by Default

DOES YOUR BUSINESS HAVE AN ORGANIZATIONAL CULTURE BY DEFAULT?

How would you know, and what can you do about it?

Ok, so first of all … what do we mean by an organizational culture?

It could be described as the sum of values, modes of communication, policies, and other systems in the business place.

In other words, how we do things around here.

How might this be “by default”?

Any culture developed over time by a series of reactions to circumstances would qualify as a culture by default.

In this type of work environment one will witness unpredictable ways of doing business. There may be a standard operating procedure (SOP) manual somewhere, but it goes unused.

One might also see a high toleration of dysfunctional work relationships, a tendency to re-work projects, departments working in silos and a “this will have to be good enough” attitude.

Possibly even more impactful on these cultures are the working language and belief systems in place. What people say, how they listen to each other and what they make it all mean make up the heartbeat of an organization. Complaints and gossips are rampant in cultures by default.

What might be an alternative?

AN ORGANIZATIONAL CULTURE BY DESIGN

Rather than being at the effect of circumstances a culture by design can be seen in a company that architects its policies, systems and communication based on its values and vision.

What if team members supported each other as real partners? What if conversations were focused on solutions and acknowledgment? What if decisions were made in a spirit of alignment?

You-the one reading thisyou can make this happen.

Have a conversation for action with the people, or person who can make the difference.  (This just might be the boss.)

  1. Frame the conversation around your commitment and why you’re talking to her.
  2. State the facts of the situation. What have you noticed in the organization?
  3. Let her know how this culture by default has impacted your co-workers, the executives, the clientele, the company’s reputation, revenue, efficiency … and YOU.
  4. Offer a resolution and/or make a request.

The results you get here will be directly related to your level of commitment. You may hit a home run your first visit to the plate. You may just get a base hit. Using this formula does not guarantee instant success and nirvana. However it will be a useful tool for percolating your ideas up to leadership or other areas of the enterprise.

If you are truly speaking from a context of service to the company (distinct from “kissing butt”) you will begin to make yourself known in the eyes of your company’s leaders as someone who is aligned with moving the company forward instead of someone who is resigned to complaining and make-wrong.

Can you stay committed and be the very change you are looking for?

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ARE THERE UNEXPECTED BENEFITS OF FORGIVENESS?

ARE THERE UNEXPECTED BENEFITS OF FORGIVENESS?
To begin … I think it’s valuable to distinguish some conflicting beliefs about forgiveness.  There is one school of thought that allows the act of forgiveness to be fully encapsulated in the words, “I forgive you.” Does uttering this phrase automatically constitute forgiveness? … or is it simply what you’re supposed to say?

There is Oscar Wilde’s famous quote, Always forgive your enemies-nothing annoys them so much. This stance does little to quell resentment, bond the conflicting parties or move issues forward. Instead of forgiveness let’s call this humorous advice on how to maintain “enemy status” with a noble appearance.

A different quote by the late theologian Lewis B. Smedes offers another kind of forgiveness: To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you. This is forgiveness. This begs for no restorative justice or apology from the other party.

The important distinction

If we take Wilde’s stance we do the same or worse than not forgiving. We increase and propel the conflict into the future. This breathes life into resentment and anger.

There are some contemporary societal cues that will tell you … Don’t back downBe strong … Don’t be a door mat! These are no doubt useful in certain circumstances, but in those trying moments of conflict is the best choice to always stand your ground? … or can you be strong enough to give up your position and forgive? If you’ve ever been involved in or remotely close to a divorce you’ve probably noticed the cost of taking the stance of … Don’t back down … or Be strong. Nothing against the practice of Family Law, but divorce lawyers continue to cash in on people’s unwillingness to forgive.

Smedes’ version offers completion. It is a conclusion. When we forgive we end the unkind kerfuffle once and for all. We can get on with our lives.

The urge to get restitution can be overwhelming. I know this all too well, as FAIRNESS is a core value of mine. I tend to get blindsided by the belief that getting even can be necessary. However, I ask you to consider that whatever satisfaction gained by winning this little battle of right v. wrong consistently pales in comparison to the grace and gift of true forgiveness.

In your own life have you noticed a willingness to forgive the way Dr Smedes is suggesting? This kind of forgiveness could also be described as “to give as before” … to actually give your

attention, listening and respect to the offender as if the incident never happened.

The benefits

So what is my advantage if I let some perpetrator off the hook?

Let’s start with freedom … a repetitive word in this blog, but worthy.

Freedom from what’s eating at you is what we’re talking about here. This may seem obvious by now, but in moments where forgiveness is lacking, holding on to resentment can be easily justified. The impact of which is similar to drinking the poison hoping the other person dies. This can go on so long we have completely forgotten what perpetration originally took place against us. Look at adult sibling relationships. It has become quite acceptable to have lifelong resentments exist in families dating back to adolescence. What’s the cost here? What’s available if one of the brothers or sisters were to forgive? What would that add to their quality of life? What burden could be relieved from their heart and mind?

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Reliability

If I were to ask you to rate how reliable you are, how would you answer?

What if I were to ask your boss the same question about you?

What about your co-workers?  Your spouse?  Your kids?

More and more these days we are noticing the importance of being someone to count on. It seems to be an attractive trait to have.  To be known as someone who does what they say they will do AND to do it on time is a clear advantage.

Even though the result is what we’re after here, what if being reliable has less to do with DOING than with the MINDSET around it?

I am currently working with a client who as of today, October 5, 2012 has not missed a day of running in over 1000 days. Granted some days he runs more than others … but the most recent day I saw him run, he ran over 52 miles … IN ONE DAY!

The next morning … was he tired? Was he sore? Did he have good reasons to skip a day?

Yes.

But, did he wake up at 5 am and go for his daily run anyway?

Yes he did.

That’s reliability.

We already know ourselves to be reliable for many things. You may be able to count on yourself to make the bed. Maybe you visit your great-aunt every Sunday … or only buy organic produce. Maybe you know yourself as someone who pays bills on time or keeps their oil changed regularly.

Beyond what others think of you, it begins when you know yourself in this way.

However, we don’t always live our life like we have a choice in the matter. We may have convinced ourselves that the things we are consistent and predictable about don’t carry as much weight as the things we would like to be better at.

What if it’s not a matter of being better at something, but to a greater degree it’s a matter of choosing to turn on the switch that lights up the world of reliability. My client who runs every day … rain or shine, snow or sleet, sick or well … was probably NOT born with the natural trait of reliability. It all happened in a singular moment … the moment he chose to get committed to something. Likely in the beginning he chose again and again until he knew himself to be reliable at it. There is no longer a debate each morning on whether or not to run. It happens as predictably as the day itself.

If a newspaper delivery service is unreliable, how long will they stay in business? Not long. They must choose to be so until they know themselves at an IDENTITY LEVEL to be reliable. Who they ARE is a delivery service … everyday, no exceptions.

In what world would you like to be reliable?

Good health?

Prosperity?

Community involvement?

In what world would you like to leap into and know that you’ll be great at it forever?

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Reading List: The 21 Indispensable Qualities of a Leader: Becoming the Person Others Will Want to Follow

The 21 Indispensable Qualities of a Leader: Becoming the Person Others Will Want to Follow

“The 21 Indispensable Qualities of a Leader gets straight to the heart of leadership issues. Maxwell once again touches on the process of developing the art of leadership by giving the reader practical tools and insights into developing the qualities found in great leaders.” – Kenneth Blanchard, Coauthor of The One Minute Manager®

“Dr. John Maxwell is the authority on leadership today. His innovative yet timeless principles on how to effectively lead others have personally impacted my life and my business. This is a must-read for any organization that wants to succeed in the new millennium.” -Peter Lowe, President of Peter Lowe International and Peter Lowe’s SUCCESS Seminars

“My dear friend John Maxwell has proven his ability to lead leaders. I anticipate learning even more from his new book.” -Max Lucado, Author of Just Like Jesus

John C. Maxwell (Author)

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